salam alekum

so this is really happenning! will be in pakistan for a week!

the first Grind (Grindr)

my friends and i were goofing around while waiting for our "lunch" break to be over and Cham grabbed my phone and logged in using my Grindr account.

she browsed through the online users and asked permission from me if she can send a message to someone.

having another iPhone on my hand i gnored her. she took this as a sign that i gave her permission to freely send a message to whoever she wants...

she sent mesages to someone and this was how the conversation went...

cham: want a piece of me? (this is so not me)
Grindr: U top or btm?
cham: top (i have no idea how she knew that i was one)
cham: u?
Grindr: Versa. Wer u at now?
cham: rufino and u?
Grindr: I'm in greenbelt right now. Got place?
Grindr: Mobile number?
cham: 0906584041* (i almost published my complete mobile number, almost!)
cham: im at work
Grindr: I see. So how can I have a piece of you? Hehe
cham: i have a place in Laguna.. wana cum ( cum pala ha!)

end of conversation.

i was surprised when cham and chow called me saying that Grindr is calling

i answered the call of course! (may tinatago din naman akong kati)

we talked for about 5 minutes, the usual question and answer portion in every budding hook-up.

he then offered to pick me up in front of the building and bring me to a place in mandaluyong where we can go all the way.

on our way to Mandaluyong, he had to gas up his car. (nothing extraordinary happened)

the "shell" boy knocked and informed him that the rear tires are a little soft so he drove a little to have it pumped (pardon my "car" language i really am not into cars!)

while parked. he started groping me...

Grindr: malaki ba? (with his hands rummaging the inside of my pants)
Grindr: Wow shit ang laki! puma-partee ka ba?
me: not anymore

my drug phase has passed. i don't do that stuff anymore.

Grindr: re sched tayo bukas, mas masarap yan kapag naka partee ako... game ka ba bukas?
me: i have a training class tomorrow around 11:00 pm
Grindr: ah ok. so after ha... malapit lang sa office mo... txt ko sayo room number
me: ok

(i have edited most of the parts for they are either confidential or sexually explicit)

he brought me back to where he picked me and asked for a kiss before i went down.

Grindr: bukas ha. walang indiyanan ha...


i'll update this blog tomorrow exactly 30 minutes after my first Grindr meet

ang "Grindr" (bow)

i have heard this application before but i never bothered downloading it for reasons i don't understand.

but awhile ago, during my blog-hopping, i encountered a post from Carrie 's blog entitled May Pag-ibig nga ba sa Gilingan? which made me research further.

this should be interesting...

can't wait for my first Grindr meet.

back to blogsphere

another attempt.

what went wrong?

this is the question.

everything was ok i guess, based on the feedback given by friends and exes. but i honestly don't know what came to me and made me make that decision. maybe i really wasn't built for something like that.

yesterday, i bade farewell.

the last piece of memory was your toothbrush.

i threw it yesterday. i placed it in a bag filled with your memories. filled with the questions. filled.

goodbye! have a great life!!!

14 years of friendship... and counting still!!!

it all started 14 years ago...

we were still young adults then, we took pleasure in eating "lucky me" pancit canton, wendy's french fries', sing along allanis morisette, overnight stays with someone's house, play tong-its, and a couple of other things that helped in building our friendship.

we may not be complete last sunday, we may have missed the other members of the gang, WE WERE HAPPY STILL.

i personally am very happy for all of us. we have made something out of ourselves. who would have thought that the bunch who played "shagidi-shagidi-sha-po-po" in the school grounds, are now tax payers!!!

the 14 years that we have shared are truly memorable.

we are now building another phase of memories. some of us already have little miniatures of themselves (sorry friends, si Yuki talaga favorite ko sa mga kids...)

may we continue to hold each other's hands as we explore another reality...

a toast to all of us! for the 14 years of friendship and for the friendship that would last for the rest of our lives!!!

i love you guys! see you on the 30th!!! my house!!! contact those who were absent last sunday!!!

blog walking

I was blog walking and came across gibbs cadiz' blogsite. I then remembered that he wrote a review about the last theater production that i did. What he wrote was very inspiring. However, his entry about PETA's Don_Q made me ask myself a lot of questions... he said and i quote...

"It's a strong showcase of PETA's upcoming thespians, and a great reassurance that, if these actors are the future of the industry, we can breathe more easily for Philippine theater. "

I am no longer part of the future of Philippine Theater. I left 3 years ago... I want to go back!!!

And i will. I will...

Very Soon!!!